To my Single Christian Sisters of the Living Stones Church,
When the guy you have been dating for awhile won’t clarify his intentions for your relationship and keeps telling you as he breaks up/gets back together again (repeat pattern ad nauseum) with you he “just isn’t sure what he wants“…
What he means is, “I’m sure I don’t want you but I’m not man enough to be honest with you and too selfish to do what’s best for you and I’d rather keep you as a reserve option just in case who I do want (real or imagined) doesn’t work out.”
My sisters…get rid of that dude now! You are worth more and deserve more than that!
Your Brother and Pastor,
Sam
Sam, are you speaking from experience?
By: Tina D. on December 5, 2008
at 4:15 pm
I am soooo getting rid of Paul.
By: sister on December 5, 2008
at 4:56 pm
You have a lot of advice for single women lately.
By: Melissa on December 5, 2008
at 6:13 pm
Who has time to date????????
By: lori on December 5, 2008
at 8:04 pm
where is your counterpart posting to the single men telling them they can rise above their inate primal instincts to treat women like that?
By: mindy on December 5, 2008
at 10:08 pm
Thanks for the thought and encouragement. I have personally never had a good relationship with the opposite sex and always seem to tolerate the ones that are as you described!! It is nice to see a nice male care about women that their well-being. I have not witnessed that very much in life.
By: Jennifer C on December 6, 2008
at 12:12 am
Sam,
You’re THE MAN for saying that. AS the Australians say, ‘Good on ya’!
By: Lynette on December 7, 2008
at 6:03 am
Where were you (and Kelly, since I know this awesome insight must come from her) when I was 19????
By: Janelle on December 7, 2008
at 8:32 am
Thanks sam sometimes it seems like its not possible but i kno it is….
By: me on December 12, 2008
at 7:08 am